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6 Tips for a Hot Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and there’s a good chance your significant other might not know exactly what to get you. To help you have a sensational Valentine’s Day, Dr. Sari Locker, celebrity sex and relationship expert, has some advice that will get your honey on the right track.

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Don’t leave it to “chance”-give your sweetie all the hints they’ll need counting down to V-day. Check out these six sexy tips from Dr. Locker to make this the hottest Valentine’s Day yet.

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1. Declare Your Devotion

1. Declare Your Devotion

Never assume your partner just “knows” how you feel. Actions speak louder than words but words are very important, too. Sing a love song on their voicemail. Compose a love poem and text it to them. Leave erotic Post-it notes all over the bedroom. Remind your guy or gal that your love is true and you adore them.

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2. Be Nostalgic

2. Be Nostalgic

Give your sweetie a CD of a band you heard together, a poster from the first movie that you saw, a T-shirt from a great place you went together. Show them that everything the two of you have experienced together as a couple means a lot to you.

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3. Create a Sexy Valentine's Scavenger Hunt

3. Create a Sexy Valentine’s Scavenger Hunt

Hide small spa gifts for your guy or gal to find, such as relaxing massage oil, body butter, foaming bath soak, and more. With each gift, include a clue to where the next gift can be found. The last gift leads to the bathroom where you have drawn a foaming bath for your honey amid the glow of sweet smelling spa candles. Then their real gift begins as you join them in the tub.

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4. Hold Your Honey's Hand

4. Hold Your Honey’s Hand

Whether you go for a moonlit stroll, or just hold their hand as you snuggle on the couch, holding hands all night will show that you are there for your significant other. Heat up the intensity by treating your special someone to a hand massage with a stimulating hand cream or massage oil.

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5. Give Your Sweetie a Sensual Massage

5. Give Your Sweetie a Sensual Massage

A massage can relax a person, but a sensual massage can make them quiver all over. For Valentine’s night, set the scene with scented candles and soft music. Then guide your loved one to the bed, undress them, and ask them to lie down on their stomach. Place some massage oil in your hands, and hold it there for a moment to warm it. Next, give your sweetie a traditional back massage. After about fifteen minutes, turn it into a sensual massage by asking them to roll over onto their back. Tenderly rub their body and brush your fingers over their most sensitive areas. Don’t rush. The longer you linger and the slower you go, the more erotic tension you’ll build. Then when you are both ready, you can enjoy the release of all that tension.

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6. Do it in the Dark

6. Do it in the Dark

Some people love getting frisky with the lights on, while others feel less inhibited in the dark. For Valentine’s night, enjoy the pleasure of kissing, touching, and more-all in a room that is entirely dark. You’ll be free to explore all of your *other* senses. Use your fingertips to caress every inch of your partner’s her body, and delight in the sensation of touch. Ask her to wear a flavored lip balm, so you can focus on the taste of every kiss. Tell her that you are wearing a new after shave, so she can explore the new scent of your body. Listen to her breathing and sounds of pleasure to become even more turned on. You’ll find out how the dark can brighten up your Valentine’s night.

About Dr. Sari Locker
Dr. Sari Locker, Ph.D., is a sexologist, relationship educator, television personality, advice columnist, and author of The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Amazing Sex.